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My Journey Inward: From Not Knowing to Being the Light

In the unfolding of my journey, I have witnessed a quiet but profound shift – one that begins with not knowing that there is another reality beyond what the senses perceive, and gradually moving toward an inner certainty that such a reality exists, and in fact, is what I truly am.

The Awakening Through Listening

In the beginning, I didn’t even know what I didn’t know. The world of appearances felt real, solid, and all-encompassing. But something began to stir when I started listening first to the words of my Guru, and then to the scriptures she taught.

In this phase, Shradha – faith was key. It has always been easy for me to trust others. I have long believed in the goodness of beings. At that time, my trust was rooted deeply in the personality of my Guru – in her presence, her strength, her clarity, and her lived embodiment of the path. It was a devotional trust, full of reverence and heart. I leaned on her light as one leans on a lighthouse in unfamiliar waters.

A seed was planted: there is another reality – subtle, still, unchanging. Listening again and again began to refine this understanding. What was once a distant concept became a quiet, inner knowing. I started to have faith – not blindly, but experientially. This faith deepened when I began to test what I heard against the circumstances of my own life. The teachings weren’t just intellectually compelling; they worked. They brought clarity, insight, and often, a deep peace.

My Guru never asked for allegiance to herself; instead, she invited me to place my trust in the eternal wisdom of the scriptures. And I have, not with the need to master every text, but with the confidence that I can turn to them whenever I find myself in doubt, confusion, or inner conflict.

Even today, though I feel grounded in my understanding of my essential nature, I continue to listen – not because I am seeking something more, but because I know that something deeper is always waiting to be revealed.

Reflection and Living the Teachings

As this inner knowing began to take root, the journey naturally shifted toward reflection. I started holding the teachings up to the mirror of my everyday life my work, relationships, decisions, even my reactions, and quietly watching how they held. And more often than not, watching how they held me.

It stopped being about belief and became about application.

To stay with this process, I found myself returning again and again to Sādhanā – a practice, an inner discipline, that keeps me anchored in Truth. Not just a set of spiritual activities, but a conscious way of living that helps me stay connected and centred in the midst of movement.

Sādhanā allows me to engage with the world without being entangled in it. To participate fully, without losing myself in the currents of it all. It teaches me how to act without grasping, to feel without being overwhelmed, and to respond without being reactive.

Over time, I’ve come to see that life doesn’t necessarily become easier. But it does become lighter. My responses are more grounded. My sense of identity is less rigid. The challenges haven’t disappeared, but they no longer uproot me in the same way. And in this steadiness, a space has opened within – a space that feels like home.

The daily study of the scriptures has become one of the deepest joys of my life. A true Sādhanā in itself. A quiet returning. A way to remember. And yet, I find I still need to renew my commitment to it again and again.

Consistency remains a tender edge for me one I meet with honesty and compassion.

Contemplation and the Quiet Blooming of Truth

Now, two decades into this journey, the inner world has grown quieter, and a different kind of listening has emerged, not one that relied on words, but one that simply was. Not a technique or effort, but a natural resting into what I had heard and reflected on.

At the heart of this phase is Samarpan – Surrender to the flow of life that moves through and around me – whether I understand it or not. I meditate inconsistently, often with the help of guidance or structured support. Sitting completely alone, in stillness, without any scaffolding that’s still a work in progress.

Given that contemplation isn’t something I practise deliberately, and yet it arrived naturally as I surrendered – This surrender has not come all at once, nor has it been passive. It is not resignation. It has taken the shape of a full-bodied, conscious allowing – a softening of control and a quiet trust in something far more intelligent than the mind can grasp. And in this field of surrender, something began to land – not as a conclusion, but as a living insight: The One who showed me the path, the path itself, and the One who walks it are not separate.

What began as listening to another’s voice has become listening from within. The light that once seemed to shine from another now glows from within me. The path is no longer lit by someone else’s flame, but by the quiet radiance of my own being. And while I may no longer depend on my Guru in the way I did when I first began this journey 20 years ago, what has remained and in fact deepened is the reverence, the gratitude, and the quiet, unshakable Love I feel. It is no longer directed only toward a person, but toward the essence of her presence that once came through her so clearly, and now lives in me intimately, inseparably.

Because now I see there is no difference
between the one who illuminated the way,
the light that lights it, the path itself,
and the one who walks it.

This is how it has revealed itself to me organically, subtly, sometimes painfully, mostly beautifully.
From not knowing, to knowing, to simply Being.

And if I have moved at all on this path, it is not through my effort alone. Whatever has unfolded has unfolded through Grace, not as a concept, but as a quiet current beneath it all. The unseen hand that steadies, the silent presence that holds, the whisper that calls me back when I forget.

And with folded hands and an open heart, I offer this prayer:

If there is an error in this seeing, may it be lovingly corrected.
If there is truth in it, may it deepen.
And may I walk this path with humility, consistency, and the Light of Love.